What is happening in this necessary relationship? Why do children instigate such breakups? Kids take the past, present abuse of the parents, be it physical, emotional or sexual says many psychologists in the west. Intense pressure on the parents in dealing with their own emotional issues and conflicts as there is no consistent focus on relationship building is also a good reason for this. High rates of divorce cases puts pressure on the children to take sides, adjusting to parents new relationships is almost impossible. They seek some stable circumstances in their lives. Controlling behaviour of the parents when they have not invested enough time on bonding with the child irritates the child. Kids want to take responsibly of their own lives and make choices that they are ready to face.
OFTEN PARENTS VISIT THEIR CHILDREN WHEN THEY GROW UP FOR THEIR OWN EMOTIONAL NEEDS; GIVE THEM TIME TO SHOW THEIR CARE AND TRUST IN PARENTS.
Vasantha Vaikunth